Let’s be real: shopping for your first sex toy can feel exciting and overwhelming. Between the options, materials, sizes, and all the buzzy bells and whistles—it’s hard to know where to start.
At The Deja Vu Love Boutique, we believe that your first toy should be fun, stress-free, and totally empowering. That’s why we put together a beginner’s list of our most loved, easy-to-use sex toys—perfect for solo play or partner exploration.
1. A Soft, Slim Vibrator
If you’re new to toys, start simple. A slim vibrator offers a gentle introduction without overwhelming vibration or size.
It’s perfect for external stimulation or gentle internal exploration. You’re in complete control—no complicated settings, no surprises—just smooth, steady sensations that help you discover what you like.
Rechargeable Classic Chic Vibe
2. Clitoral Suction Toys
Clitoral suction toys deliver a unique sensation that’s totally different from traditional vibration—it’s more like a rhythmic kiss or soft pulse that surrounds the clitoris instead of buzzing directly on it. Many people find it easier to reach orgasm this way, especially if vibrations can feel too intense.
We Vibe Melt 2
Melt 2 enhances partner play with delicate yet intense air vibrations for effortless orgasms. Seamlessly slipping between partners, it provides pulsating sucking and massaging sensations to the clitoris for heightened intimacy. With Melt 2, both partners can fully immerse in shared orgasms without distraction, thanks to its sleek design and effortless performance, complemented by Smart Silence technology for discreet use.
3. Beginner Butt Plugs
Curious about backdoor play? The key is to go slow, use plenty of lube, and start small. A beginner plug with a smooth texture, soft flexibility, and a flared base ensures comfort and safety while you explore new sensations.
B-Vibe Butties Slide Plug
Introduce a little slip ‘n’ slide magic to your booty time with the b-Vibe Butties Slide Silicone Butt Plug. Made from the sleekest silicone with a perfectly proportioned sphere-shaped body, it’s the only pleasure accessory you’ll want for your anal play and training.
The slender neck of the Slide ensures smooth, comfortable insertion and wear, while the wide base prevents any unwanted movement.
4. Waterproof Vibes for Shower Play
There’s something deliciously freeing about playtime in the shower or bath—warm water, privacy, and easy cleanup. Waterproof toys open up a whole new way to enjoy solo or partner play, whether you want to unwind or turn up the heat.
We Vibe Tango X
Our classic waterproof bullet vibe has evolved, offering more power, smoother design and better control than ever before. Tango X delivers 8 types of body-shaking vibrations, while the improved tip massages your clitoris with devastating accuracy.
5. Lube-Enhanced Finger Sleeves
If you’re not ready to dive into toys just yet, finger sleeves are a fun way to add sensation without intimidation. They amplify touch, let you explore pressure and rhythm, and make foreplay even more exciting. Add a few drops of lube and discover how a little texture can make a big difference.
Silicone Finger Teasers
Enjoy new feelings of self-gratification with the versatile Finger Teasers. The easy to use finger stimulation sleeves are supplied in a pair for tantalizing erotic exploration that is limited only by your imagination. The contoured, stretch to fit teasers are textured and sensually swirled for maximized stroking, rubbing and stimulation ecstasy.
6. Couples’ Vibrators
Exploring toys together can strengthen intimacy, build communication, and spark new kinds of pleasure. Couples’ vibrators are designed to enhance—not replace—connection. Many are wearable during sex or controlled remotely, making them a playful way to explore shared sensations.
We Vibe Chorus
Two become one – the only remote controlled couples toy that truly understands you. Intelligent but intuitive, Chorus allows you to experience the most powerful pleasure: a shared, simultaneous orgasm.
7. Rechargeable Bullet Vibrators
Small but mighty, bullet vibes are the ultimate beginner’s toy. They’re discreet, easy to use, and great for clitoral stimulation, nipple play, or teasing any erogenous zone. Rechargeable models are eco-friendly and often much more powerful than their battery-powered cousins.
Nu Sensuelle Nikita Bullet
Nikita redefines what a compact bullet can do, combining raw, unfiltered intensity with thoughtful design for a new level of pleasure. At its core is the powerful Nitro motor, engineered to deliver ultimate ecstasy in seconds. But Nikita is more that just power- it’s precision. Its soft, ultra-feminine silhouette and slanted head are sculpted to hug every contour, creating a perfect balance of bold performance and sensual elegance.
Find What Feels Right for You
Your first toy should make you excited, not nervous. Whether you’re exploring solo or sharing the experience with a partner, The Deja Vu Love Boutique is here to guide you every step of the way—with no judgment, no pressure, and plenty of expertise.
Still not sure where to start?
Browse our full selection of Beginner Sex Toys, or visit us in-store to get personalized recommendations from our friendly staff who know their buzz from their battery life.
Use coupon code BEGINNERS to save 20% on all beginners toys!
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