Sex toys in the shower… I’m gonna be real with you—shower time isn’t just for getting clean in my house. There’s something about the warm water, the steam, and the fact that it’s one of the few places where no one’s going to interrupt you (hopefully!) that makes it the perfect spot for a little solo or partnered play. If you’ve never brought your favorite toy into the shower, you’re seriously missing out. But not all toys—and not all showers—are created equal. After plenty of steamy trial and error, here are my go-to tips and tricks for using sex toys in the shower.
Double Check That It’s Actually Waterproof
This might sound obvious, but just because a toy says it’s “water-resistant” doesn’t mean it can handle full-on shower play. Always check the packaging or manufacturer’s site to make sure it’s labeled fully waterproof. Silicone toys with sealed charging ports or battery compartments are usually a safe bet. Trust me—nothing kills the mood like accidentally frying your favorite vibrator.
Evolved Brat Bunny
Get nightclub play-time vibes with Brat Bunny, the electric green rabbit vibrator that delivers a steady beat of pure pleasure. Two powerful motors — one in the textured chubby G-spot head and one in the bunny-ear stimulator – work together in unison for a dual experience that’s as gentle or crazy-intense as you desire. Choose the rhythm you want as the toy follows your movements with its flexible, floppy shaft.
Go for Suction Base or Strap Options
You don’t want to be juggling a slippery toy with one hand while trying to stay balanced on wet tile. That’s a recipe for bruises. If you’re into penetration or want to use a dildo or butt plug, choose something with a strong suction base you can stick to the wall or floor. Want hands-free vibes? Try a vibrating panty with a waterproof remote, or grab a shower strap-on harness for partner play. Game changer.
Au Naturel Jack 7″ Dildo Caramel
The Au Naturel Jack lets you explore your desires, with its ultra-realistic Sensa Feel® layers. Featuring FlexiShaft® technology, for a erect dildo yet still soft and bendable to conform to your body so you can ride him harder. Every detail, from firmness to skin & vein texture, is carefully crafted for maximum lifelike effect—all for your pleasure.
Lube Still Matters (And Yes, It Has to Be the Right Kind)
Water washes away natural lubrication, and sadly, most regular lubes don’t hold up in the shower. You need a good silicone-based lube—it lasts longer and doesn’t rinse away mid-session. Just make sure your toy is compatible (some silicone toys don’t play nice with silicone lube), or put a condom over the toy if you want to be extra safe.
Uberlube Silicone
Premium quality, long-lasting formula, luxurious feel. Überlube sets a new standard in sexual lubrication.
Long-lasting lubrication that keeps up with your desires. Überlube provides the perfect amount of slip and slide, enhancing pleasure throughout the entire experience.
Will not harm healthy bacteria. Does not affect Ph level or osmolality.
Steam It Up, But Don’t Slip
Play With Temperature (Carefully)
Vibes Carry Differently in Water
Clean-Up Is Easy—Take Advantage!
Jo Foaming Toy Cleaner
JO Refresh Foaming Toy Cleaner is a gentle, fragrance-free formula that easily cleans all types of toy surfaces and can extend the lifespan of your most intimate items. The fast-acting foam cleaner clings to the surfaces it needs to clean but leaves no residue. And, it needs only 60 seconds to work before it can be rinsed away.
Shower Sex Toys Are a Whole Vibe.
If you’re new to water play, start slow—bring a small waterproof vibe in and see how it feels. Or try a quickie with a partner in the shower using a shared toy. It’s intimate, fun, and a little bit forbidden in the best way. Just don’t forget the lube and the bath mat.
Happy splashing!
